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The Art of The Gift: Bliss's Guide to Valentine's Day Jewelry

by Bliss Lau

There’s a quote by Esther Perel that I love: “The quality of your life ultimately depends on the quality of your relationships.”   Many of us move through life as romantic partners and for me her quote is a little hint to savor those partnerships.

Valentine’s Day might feel like a superficial holiday, but it represents something that is valuable at its core, a reminder to treasure the person we are in partnership with. Which is why I consider jewelry to be the perfect gift.

Jewelry has always been a way to communicate love and so much can be communicated with one precious object.  Jewelry can be the keeper of a shared memory or an intimate secret; a reminder of a sensual or romantic moment.

Now, I know that choosing the perfect jewelry gift for Valentine’s Day can be overwhelming and maybe even a bit intimidating.  Earrings? A necklace? A ring?   How do you choose the perfect piece for someone you treasure? 

My simple approach to selecting the perfect jewelry gift for Valentine's Day starts with a question. 

WHAT BRINGS THEM JOY? (A HINT FOR THE PERFECT JEWELRY GIFT)

What makes your partner smile? What inspires them? What is their happy place? Selecting something that feels personal ensures they carry a piece of your love with them wherever they go. So don’t worry about trends.  You know what resonates with your loved one and their life.  Your intuition about them can guide this choice.   

One of the things I love about jewelry is you see it throughout the day; you catch a glimpse of yourself in the mirror... Earrings bring a dynamic sparkle and framing to their face, a necklace reminds them of you every time they look in the mirror or in the case of ring sets, you get to see them all day.  A ring brings a bit of daily joy – an ever-present reminder of you thinking of them. And you can elevate that feeling; adding a meaningful gemstone is a wonderful way to connect to their soul.

A piece of jewelry can amplify the things they love, whether it’s a color, shape, or sentiment that connects them to something meaningful. By tapping into what makes them happy, you’re selecting not just a gift, but a daily reminder of your love.  When you choose a piece of fine jewelry with intention, it becomes a part of their everyday experience.

CONSIDER THE CHAPTER OF YOUR LOVE STORY

Are you celebrating the start of something new? Commemorating a long-lasting relationship? Or simply showing your appreciation for someone who means the world to you? Some pieces of jewelry do wonders for marking a milestone in your romance. 

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Our Levitate Earrings were inspired by Olaf Eliason’s New York City Waterfalls The design represents a shared journey; a relationship in balance and in motion. They capture the grace and fluidity with which love develops, always rising, always flowing. Tying the meaning of the piece to your experience can make the perfect jewelry gift.

A unique love story can also inspire custom design. Make an appointment to create a one-of-a-kind piece with us.  You can also discover our Renew Experience to breathe new life into a piece of your loved one’s unused heirloom jewelry.

LET THE JEWELRY BE THE MESSAGE

Jewelry is, at its heart, an emotional gift.   And I’m sure there’s a feeling you want to convey.   

There is beauty in being intentional, knowing the sentiment you’re trying to convey whether it's a commitment of love or a message of seduction.   Here are a few guiding principles for following your intuition.

Romance 

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  • Necklaces are pieces that are worn close to the heart, perfect for someone you hold dear.  Our Halo Joy Necklace beautifully frames the body, elegant and deceptive in its simplicity.

Sensuality

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  • An elegant step up from lingerie, our body chains speak volumes. The Interlude Body chains sketches lines along the silhouette accentuating parts of the body that may otherwise go unseen. A reminder for your loved one to embrace their sexuality.

Playfulness

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  •  A pair of dynamic earrings can be the finishing touch to any look. A pair like the Nuance Earrings have an elegant and unexpected form bringing an air of joy both every day and on special occasions.

Dedication

  • A ring is deeply personal and lasting, especially one with an intentional design.  The Cusp Ring is inspired by the design of the Brooklyn Bridge, is one of our best sellers.  For the ultimate in personal expression, we recommend our Custom Experience with Bliss. Make an appointment as a couple to choose a stone and a setting and create and design a beautiful piece you’ll both cherish. 

IT’S NOT JUST THE GIFT, ITS THE GIVING

Anais Nin said, “We become who we are through the act of loving.” With that powerful thought in mind, I believe the moment of giving a piece of jewelry is almost as important as the piece itself.

A handwritten note is always a beautiful touch. Taking the time to express your feelings in writing will make the gesture even more personal and meaningful.    

Packaging is just the beginning. The presentation can make the gift giving moment memorable. Does it come out with dessert at a restaurant or is it discovered on a pillow before bed?

Or take a tip from my husband who proposed to me with a sketchbook: offer your loved one a Custom Experience with Bliss and choose the stone and design together.  Your gift is now a joyful experience for you both. 

TRUST YOURSELF

When selecting a piece of jewelry for Valentine’s Day, the most important thing is to make it personal. What will resonate with your loved one? What speaks to their style and the depth of your connection? Jewelry is more than an accessory; it’s a way to celebrate love and to create lasting memories. With intention, any piece can become a treasured reminder of the bond you share.

The perfect jewelry gift will make the wearer feel truly seen and appreciated, a reflection of who they are and how much they mean to you.

With kindness,

Bliss Lau